About the so-called constructive criticism

how to deal with critics

Constructive critism hypocrisy

Or how people try to tear you down

Know one thing :

When you are bringing something new, positive to the table, some people, most of the time filled with jealousy, and anger towards themselves will try to come to you with negativity. Tear you down with words wrapped in so called "constructive criticism".

You can have 3 reactions to unsolicited critics :

- take it personally and change your plans to please people who obviously don't want to be pleased but want you to fail

- not answering

- demolishing their poor argumentation and move on

When my clients face critics, I advice them to chose the third option, and to add a a bit of compassion though, for the people who spend more time criticising what people are doing than building their own lives and success.